Who saved who?

So I have been spending a lot of time talking to a friend of mine who is going through a lot of changes. They are discovering why they made their choices in the past and why they are making different choices now in the present. Personally I am walking down this road too. I understand where they are at, and I try to tell them. To let them know they are not alone.

We are all responsible in how we react and handle things. Life dishes us some major bullshit and how we react is our choice. Its not about programming, its not about what your parents did to you, its not about your religion, it is about YOU. You can choose how you react, you can choose what you say and do, and it is your responsibility to own up to those choices.

So he tells me thank you, but really I have to say thank you to him, because reminding him reminds me. One day I will explain how all this came about....but not today. I thank you Dingo, for reminding me, and keeping me real.